Appeal to Parents

Autistic Grievance

In our petition to Government we denounce Guardianship Law – asking it to be abolished.  This law is a vile corruption of true Guardian’s purpose – it guards innocence with evil. It had sprouted in the dark ages from the same foul grounds as the slavery – another lawless atrocity we had struggled to overcome.

But you – the Parent of a Child – have The Power to simply brush it aside.  Don’t put your grown child under guardianship and your child will be Free. Free to live their own life as they choose.  

Is it that simple?  It is that simple. Put your Trust in the Child and the Good of the People. That is the only way. There are many good people around you.  You must help your child to grow a circle of trusted friends around themselves – friends chosen by your child and approved by you – not the other way around. Some will be friends for some time and some for life. You need to create the opportunity for this – this is your responsibility. You may be the best parent, but you must learn to let go and have your child lead the way.

It is called Self-direction; it is called Self-determination; it is called Supported decision making.  Trusted friends help us all make right decisions and help us when we need real help. Circle of friends and family is essential, and it will foster child’s spiritual and psychological growth throughout their life just as parents do in their early years. 

No matter where you and your child are on their road to adulthood it is not too late to cross over to the path of Self-determination.  It is the only right path for your child – the path that leads to their independence and freedom. You must trust them to lead there and you should do all you can to help. Hired help can be used, but be aware of the so called “evidence-based science” and the inherent conflicts of interest that “services” represent. Do not get brainwashed. Trust your heart!  Take the risks; See how it works.

The development of your child is delayed in the early years; there is nothing wrong with it but it requires longer nourishment.  Parents are the best party to do it and need to be allowed extra time to nourish the child. This is the least expensive approach in the long run as it creates the best positive outcome for the child. Family should be recognized as a true foundation fulfilling the needs of the child in early years. This should be supported by our society, by the law, and the business. 

Self-direction is spreading its wings for all the children – try it and see how it works for yours. It is the natural way that brings out individual gifts. It restores the facilitated indirect teaching and natural education; it is done in the nature, and in the community that we and all the children need to reclaim and renew. It takes a village to raise a child; a friendly village where doors are open and children own the street. Schools are becoming prisons not only for autistics; your child is a proverbial ‘canary in the mine’ – what’s not good for them is not good for others, but they’ll be first to be harmed!  Do not let them waste in the so called schools.  Let your child decide if they want any part of it and when.

The path we suggest is inexpensive but it does require time and money, and is not easily affordable by most families.  Parents need to get control of funds budgeted by the government for education of autistic children by having the funds to be directly allocated to child’s account according to fair and simple rules, so that families can both choose and afford the best available alternative for their child as they see it. This choice must be ours – we should all fight for this together.

You can help by letting go of prohibitions that you impose on child’s behaviors that are benign but trouble you – the repetitions, the strange interests – they all are logical for them and need be explored. Your child needs a larger set to learn, it is frustrating to you but it has advantages in a long run; a larger set encounters many exceptions that need to be absorbed and understood uniting common and exception. Let them build their set unhindered, let them unite the common and exception. We will need it in our time of change. It may be why they are coming at such a high rate in out time. Open your arms to them. They need your love and trust.

Return our Freedom – Return our Rights!

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